It’s a quiet Tuesday evening in Okemah. The local diner is buzzing softly, the older generation seated in familiar spots, exchanging stories from back in the day. But one thing is strikingly absent: the younger crowd. It’s an unsettling reality for many communities across rural America, and Okemah is no exception.
Generation after generation, young residents who once walked the halls of Okemah High School, cheered on the local teams, and dreamed of a future in the town are now nowhere to be found. Instead, they’re building lives in bustling urban centers, drawn by the allure of greater opportunities and amenities that small towns struggle to match.
This trend, known as “youth out migration,” is more than just a demographic shift; it’s a crisis that affects the economic and cultural fabric of Okemah. What is driving our young people away, and, more importantly, is there a way to bring them back?
For many young people in Okemah, the appeal of city life is undeniable. Cities offer abundant job opportunities, more entertainment options, and a diverse social scene that small towns often can’t replicate. As industries like technology, finance, and healthcare continue to grow in urban centers, high-paying jobs and specialized career paths are increasingly concentrated in metropolitan areas.
Many of Okemah’s youth, upon graduating, see few options but to leave for college or vocational training in larger towns or cities. Once they’ve tasted the possibilities that city life can offer, the chances of returning to Okemah seem less appealing, especially when lucrative job offers, professional networks, and the excitement of city living pull them in the opposite direction.
When young people leave, they don’t just take their talents and ambitions with them; they also take their spending power, their entrepreneurial potential, and their capacity to contribute to Okemah’s economy. Here’s how Okemah feels the economic loss when youth out migration goes unchecked:
The economic losses are stark, but the cultural losses may be even more profound. The youth of any community bring vibrancy, diversity, and a forward-looking perspective that shapes the town’s identity. They drive new trends, host events, and encourage change, ensuring the community doesn’t fall into complacency.
In Okemah, the absence of youth is felt in the silence at sports events, the lack of new clubs or social gatherings, and the diminishing vibrancy in local arts and music. As traditions slowly fade, so does the sense of community, with older generations wondering who will carry forward their legacy.
While the challenges are significant, Okemah isn’t without options. With thoughtful planning, investment, and a focus on creating opportunities for young people, there are ways to make Okemah a more appealing home. Here’s a look at possible strategies:
In today’s digital age, work is no longer confined to office spaces in urban centers. Remote work has become more mainstream, and this presents an opportunity for Okemah. By investing in high-speed internet, co-working spaces, and other remote work-friendly infrastructure, Okemah could attract young professionals who want the quality of life a small town offers but still need access to career opportunities that may be based elsewhere.
If Okemah wants to keep its youth, the town must become a place where young people can start businesses and pursue their dreams without needing to leave. Offering grants, tax incentives, or low-interest loans for young entrepreneurs could encourage them to build their businesses locally. Additionally, creating mentorship programs with successful local business owners could provide the guidance and support young entrepreneurs need to succeed.
Part of what draws people to cities is the lifestyle — cafes, art galleries, music venues, and parks that make life enjoyable. While Okemah may not replicate a big-city nightlife, it could invest in creating more community spaces where young people can gather, share ideas, and socialize. Whether it’s an annual festival, a local art gallery, or modernized sports facilities, creating a vibrant social scene could help make Okemah feel more lively and attractive.
Offering accessible skill-building programs in fields like tech, healthcare, or green energy can make Okemah’s youth more employable and better prepared to take on local roles that might otherwise be filled by outside talent. Investing in these programs in collaboration with nearby colleges or vocational schools could provide an incentive for young people to stay while fostering a skilled workforce within the community.
Cities might offer career opportunities, but small-town life has its own allure: a slower pace, affordable living, close-knit communities, and proximity to nature. Okemah could launch a campaign aimed at reminding its youth of these benefits, while also marketing the town to young professionals from urban areas who may be seeking an escape from city life. Showcasing real-life stories of people who returned and found fulfillment in Okemah can be particularly impactful.
Youth out migration may seem like an insurmountable challenge, but it also presents an opportunity for Okemah to reimagine its future. By addressing the root causes, making strategic investments, and emphasizing the unique benefits of small-town life, Okemah can become a community that retains its youth, celebrates its heritage, and paves the way for a brighter, more inclusive future.
The journey won’t be easy, and it will require a collective effort from local government, businesses, and the community itself. But if Okemah can come together to make its young people feel valued, supported, and excited about the future, there’s a good chance the next generation will choose to stay — and maybe even inspire others to come back home.